Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Day 152


30 posts in thirty days.


30 random facts about me.


Fun fact #2: I am a shameless flirt.


Don't get me wrong, when I'm with somebody, the flirting stops. I don't want anyone to get confused about how I feel about them. But there are lines. Lines that need not be crossed.

Joe Budden had a discussion today about whether or not you can have a regular conversation with someone of the opposite sex, hang out in a public place with this person, and have it not be considered trying to "holla".

I feel like that if I speak to a female, if I'm just saying hi, you know that that's all it is. My flirting; the way I conduct myself, you KNOW that I'm flirting. You know I'm hitting on you; maybe for the way you talk, maybe for how you think about certain things, maybe how good you look in that skirt.

I'm a Gemini. Being shy is the LAST thing we are. Me? I know that I can, and do on occasion, go there with my flirting. You know it, I know it, the people around us know it, and that's the beauty of it. No crossed signals, you know what I want.

Sometimes, from what I've been told time and time again, I flirt when I don't mean to. The shameless part is that I really don't care. It's harmless to me, especially if I'm doing it subconsciously. I think that sometimes flirting goes too far with the touching and what not. I don't go there. I do subtle things; the winks, the side comments, the jokes.

Subtle enough for you to know that I'm flirting.

I do it over Twitter, I do it over Facebook, I do it at work, I do it everywhere. I rarely ask for the number, simply because I do it as a challenge to me, to see if I CAN do it, and how far a female will let me take it.

But it's gonna stop soon. I have to curb the flirting, well, with other people. I think you guys know where that's going.

So there's Fun Fact #2 about Omie. I flirt. Shamelessly.

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3 comments:

Jazz said...

Mine is such a deep unconscious behavior,I don't even realize how someone is responding to me thinking I might be interested. love people and i love to make people feel good about themselves and just be nice to people,sometimes people interpret it the wrong way. BUT flirtatiousness is deep rooted in my phychi

She Hate Me said...

I can't say that I don't recognize what my flirting does to someone.

I'm so visual and so aware of my surroundings, I can tune into people's feelings; I know when you like it and when you don't.

That's part of what makes me a shameless flirt. There are some females out there mad at me because they like it when I flirt, but I won't take it one step further and ask them out.

Like I said, it's just for me to see if I can do it.

NaturallyAlise said...

You? a flirt? The hell you say, lol... I am a conscious AND unconscious flirt. There are times I love purposely flirting, honestly I like the attention and I love giving others attention too. But people say I flirt all the time, but I think I am just very friendly in social situations, and with being a performance artist I just naturally like to make that connection with folks on and off the stage...

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