Monday, August 27, 2007

What won't do, will do. (Or, how to stop the Love Triangle Offense Part 1...)

Despite the image projected above, I'm not a player.

Nor am I J Dilla.

No disrespect to the the late, great one, but I think one girl will do for me.

Of course, as usual, Mr. I-Can't-Use-A-Regular-Bow-No-More - Have-To-Use-A-Multi-Directional-Crossbow himself, Cupid, has decided to make sure that not one, but TWO women, are totally interested in me. (No, the one in the pic is neither woman. Sorry, she was some chica I met at the bar last night.)

Most men would relish at the opportunity to have 2 women wanting him; I, however, am content with having just one. I can't deal with two women wanting your time at the same time, in the same places, doing the same things. (!)

One is a Gemini, such as myself, and she is a greedy one. (She's the Guyanese beauty I spoke about last month, pay attention! © DJ Drama) Last night, I invited Princess Daisy out with me and family to the bar for a couple of drinks and some dancing. She had to work today, so I understood when she declined. However, as I found out, she was kinda upset that I chose to go out with my fam instead of heading back to her place for.... how shall we say.... bed time. Literally. She's a homebody, and she's a sleeper, so, no hanky panky or anything like that, just some good old sleeping. She constantly wants my attention, all the time. (Trust me, I have 542 text messages this month from her that cements my statement.) I don't mind, quite honestly, I love the attention, she's a mean cook, and, she piques my interest simply because she's as sarcastic as I am. For the past month and a half, we've been kicking it, every weekend, movie dates, dinner dates, other dates... It's all been great, it's really been fun, however, there's this problem that I have....

How big, you say?

Oh, about 4'10" of a problem.

The Virgo. My best friend. Princess Peach. She's incredible. She's also just as greedy as the Gemini above. Always wants my attention, and I don't mind giving it, not one bit. Love being around her. The calm to my always moving storm. Whenever I feel like life is pulling me in different directions, she has the innate ability to get me to focus, especially on her. I've been around her for 6 years, on and off, but this year we really became close, speaking everyday. EVERYDAY. Exactly 2 weeks ago, we shared our first kiss. And our second. And out thi...... you get the point. It just felt..... RIGHT. I know I'm playing into the "All men are dogs" stereotype by dating one girl and falling in love with another, but me and the Gemini are doing just that - dating. We aren't together, and she talks to other men. Now, I'm not going to go into detail about the Virgo; same as last post, it's a complicated situation. I can say, however, that if she wasn't going through what she was going through, we would've been together for about.... two weeks now.


This post was supposed to be done earlier. But I ended up going out with the Virgo, and we had a blast, me, her, her son, and her best friend/sister. Of course, I finally told her sister that I had feelings for her best friend, and she cheered me on.

At the exact time that was going on, I received a phone call from the Gemini. She wanted to know when the next time we could spend some time together. I told her I would get back to her as soon as I can. At this point, I don't know what to say or do to either of them.

This just keeps getting better and better.

To be continued.....


Darius Sinclair™ said...

My first advice: get unlimited text, man. "Support her habit". haha.

I'm a Gemini too. Virgo women are what we need and want. But mentally, they won't be on your level. A Gemini female will fire your wits and intellect, and share your dreams. BUT, they can be wishy-washy and fickle (just like you).

My advice man, stay open right now. Don't commit to anyone. Since one is promiscuous and the other is idle, just wait until one "bites". When the 4'10"-girl shows that she's serious about YOU, then that's when you should make the Virgo simply a friend; and vice versa.

Life is about sacrifices and taking chances. If you know you seriously want one of the 2, then commit and communicate. Let them know you are committing and that you want the same respect.
I did that with my current woman. We're 3 years strong, with commitment. I've known her since 1998, so talk about waiting.

Finally, right now, You got to be selfish. Be a gentleman, but also be aggressive if you have to. Since both want you, then use your almighty game to catch the one you choose.

Sleep on it. Look to the future. That usually helps, too.

J Morgetron said...

Hey Gemini Man ... As you already know, I too am a Gemini. I am married to a Gemini, and one of our daughters is a Gemini. My oldest daughter is the only Aries in the house ... and some times I feel like she's the only sane one. I do believe that Gemini would be fun, but the Virgo will keep you on the ground. Hard call man ... Hard call.


neo said...

*sings: All I need is one more kiss mmmmmmmmm, never fell in love like this, YEAH!* - (c) J. Yancey.

(Trust me, I have 542 text messages this month from her that cements my statement.) - WTH?! LOL..smh.

It is well with you bro. I totally I'm right >.< there with ya on being with ONE.

At some point you're going to have to make a decision, the sooner you make it I advice the better. If not, someone could get hurt, and it may not be you, but seeing you're a good dude, you don't want that hanging on your consciousness...

M.Dot. said...

(Trust me, I have 542 text messages this month from her that cements my statement.)




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