30 posts in thirty days.
30 random facts about me.
Fun fact #2: I am a shameless flirt.
Don't get me wrong, when I'm with somebody, the flirting stops. I don't want anyone to get confused about how I feel about them. But there are lines. Lines that need not be crossed.
Joe Budden had a discussion today about whether or not you can have a regular conversation with someone of the opposite sex, hang out in a public place with this person, and have it not be considered trying to "holla".
I feel like that if I speak to a female, if I'm just saying hi, you know that that's all it is. My flirting; the way I conduct myself, you KNOW that I'm flirting. You know I'm hitting on you; maybe for the way you talk, maybe for how you think about certain things, maybe how good you look in that skirt.
I'm a Gemini. Being shy is the LAST thing we are. Me? I know that I can, and do on occasion, go there with my flirting. You know it, I know it, the people around us know it, and that's the beauty of it. No crossed signals, you know what I want.
Sometimes, from what I've been told time and time again, I flirt when I don't mean to. The shameless part is that I really don't care. It's harmless to me, especially if I'm doing it subconsciously. I think that sometimes flirting goes too far with the touching and what not. I don't go there. I do subtle things; the winks, the side comments, the jokes.
Subtle enough for you to know that I'm flirting.
I do it over Twitter, I do it over Facebook, I do it at work, I do it everywhere. I rarely ask for the number, simply because I do it as a challenge to me, to see if I CAN do it, and how far a female will let me take it.
But it's gonna stop soon. I have to curb the flirting, well, with other people. I think you guys know where that's going.
So there's Fun Fact #2 about Omie. I flirt. Shamelessly.
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3 comments:
Mine is such a deep unconscious behavior,I don't even realize how someone is responding to me thinking I might be interested. love people and i love to make people feel good about themselves and just be nice to people,sometimes people interpret it the wrong way. BUT flirtatiousness is deep rooted in my phychi
I can't say that I don't recognize what my flirting does to someone.
I'm so visual and so aware of my surroundings, I can tune into people's feelings; I know when you like it and when you don't.
That's part of what makes me a shameless flirt. There are some females out there mad at me because they like it when I flirt, but I won't take it one step further and ask them out.
Like I said, it's just for me to see if I can do it.
You? a flirt? The hell you say, lol... I am a conscious AND unconscious flirt. There are times I love purposely flirting, honestly I like the attention and I love giving others attention too. But people say I flirt all the time, but I think I am just very friendly in social situations, and with being a performance artist I just naturally like to make that connection with folks on and off the stage...
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